Hi legozoid,
To bad you lost youre fleet and planet, they will be rebuild and or repaired i think.
But for revenge i think you look at the wrong Alliance, we protect and look after each other, but we don't counter attack all people who get attacked by other alliances which you probably be quilty on on you own (beeing profitable)
But as for joining i will put up a voting about it for you and see how other people react but i don't think you make much change.
Maybe by reading the stickies (obeying) it will be easier to give people a chance but that will be up to you and the voting, goodluck.